I’ve just realized something about myself: I’ve reached the stage in life where I no longer think tattoos are a good idea. Now why couldn’t this epiphany have occurred about ten years and half a dozen tattoos ago?
I used to loooove tattoos, and, truth be told, I still love seeing beautifully done, elaborate pieces that hold true meaning for the owner and really showcase the artist’s talent. Unfortunately, tattoos like that only seem to occur on shows like LA Ink. You might know somebody with a really kickass tattoo. But, I’ll bet you know dozens more people with really jacked up looking tattoos, don’t you? Do any of them appear on this site? Might be worth a look!
One of my dearest friends has become seriously inked up over the past three years. Her sister married a tattoo artist, so at least her jacked up tattoos didn’t cost her anything. She has HUGE tattoos of Nightmare Before Christmas imagery, on the front of both calves and around her ankle. I think she has others elsewhere too, but those are the ones that stick in my mind. One of these tattoos was of Jack Skellington and Sally. About a year or so later, she had Oogie Boogie added right next to it. And this is when my realization really took place, I think. I was checking out Oogie Boogie and realized how crisp and beautiful it looked next to the Jack and Sally tattoo, which after only a year’s time had become far less vibrant. Besides the color issue, the lines in the tattoo weren’t nearly as crisp anymore. And I don’t think this is necessarily a reflection on the artist - I think it’s just the nature of the art itself! The canvas is ever changing, and I’ve never seen a tattoo that didn’t deteriorate with the passing of time.
I so wish someone would have sat me down a few years ago and told me that my big, bright, beautiful tattoos would look like shit after a decade or so. I probably would have used a little more discretion when picking out things to permanently place on my body. And I wish someone would have stressed to me, go big or go home. At least the big butterfly I have still looks like a butterfly, even if the lines look downright pixelated. The ladybug on my shoulder looks like a big, flat mole. With legs.
If you’re one of those folks with amazing looking tattoos, well, bully for you. You probably didn’t get stretch marks during pregnancy either, did you? Just say no, kids. That’s my free advice for the day.
Laura, also known as LaLaGirl, is the mother of a teenager and two young sets of twins. She's happily married to an enginerd named Paul, loves living in Colorado, and writes almost daily about married life, raising multiples, and parenting a child with autism. In addition to playing Barbies and pretending to eat plastic food all day, Laura spends most of her time folding clean laundry, obsessing about the amount of sugar her kids eat, and vacuuming up Polly Pocket accessories. She's obsessed with Yo Gabba Gabba, red wine, and Family Guy. She also regularly contributes to How Do You Do It? and authors the following blogs:


Missy
September 17th, 2008 at 8:41 am
Thanks for the link of bad tatoos.com - too funny!
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Amanda
September 17th, 2008 at 8:48 am
I’ve always hated tattoos (sorry!). They just look… dirty, I guess. (Although I have to admit, I’ve seen some beautiful body art that I’ve admired, it’s just pretty rare!)
Dave and I have this theory that the next generation is not going to be NEARLY as tattoo’d as ours is because all these kids are going to grow up watching their parents’ tattoos get all old and stretched out. It’s not going to seem so cool anymore!
I’ve already started telling my kids that any tattoos they get before age 18 will be FORCIBLY removed at their own expense.
PS - Genoa was sitting next to me while I wrote this and she took one look at your lalagirl.org badge over there —> and said, “Look! A beautiful princess!”
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LaLaLaura
September 17th, 2008 at 8:52 am
Awww, thanks Genoa! You know, that is ME in that badge there - I had someone draw ME for my logo - and it always cracks me up when my girls say, “Mom, why don’t you ever wear that Yo Gabba Gabba shirt?” They’re having a hard time getting their heads around the idea that it’s A DRAWING.
Erica
September 17th, 2008 at 8:55 am
I feel the same the way. When I was over 100 lbs heavier I didn’t think about the fact that the tattoos I had then would be in a different location once I lost a lot of the weight. It’s a little embarrassing now
Jade/MommaWananbe
September 17th, 2008 at 9:14 am
Thanks for dropping your ec at my blog. My first time here- your design is very pretty! I saw this one with orange- u edited it? Great job.
I also used to wish to get a tattoo but I was thinking sbout how it would look like too when I get old and saggy;) Good that I got over it.
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LaLaLaura
September 17th, 2008 at 9:31 am
Yep, it’s the Dilectio theme from Design Disease - http://designdisease.com/ They have some amazing WP themes on their site! I just customized it for my own needs.
Kirsten
September 17th, 2008 at 10:06 am
I’m so glad I didn’t get any tattoos! There were many times I almost did and those times always involved a lot of alcohol. What I thought was cool 15 years ago isn’t so cool now.
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wblmom
September 17th, 2008 at 1:50 pm
I totally agree with you on discretion and so on, unfortunately no matter what you say and show, some who want a tattoo bad enough are going to do it anyway, I have learned.
I had read not to long ago how the percent of women getting and wanting their tattoos removed has grown considerably.
I really am sorry though that your tattoos are pixelating.
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Joanna
September 17th, 2008 at 3:09 pm
Placement of the tattoo is KEY to its survival over time!
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Leslie K
September 17th, 2008 at 3:39 pm
I’m sorry you’re not loving your tats these days. You’ll ALWAYS be BEEYOUTEEFUL to me, though, flat mole tattoos (with legs) or not!
Giovanna Diaries
September 18th, 2008 at 8:11 am
Boohoo! Can’t you go in for an enhancement to refresh your tat?
I don’t have any. Mostly, b/c I’m a chicken and afraid of pain. I did want one when I was a teenager (and just saying that freaks me out and makes me feel old as heck) but alas, never got one.
I do have a tiny scar on my tummy from having surgery for the boys at 21 weeks…I’ve wanted to get a tat on that to hide/remember the whole ordeal….but again, do not want anything permanent on my body…especially my tummy. I have no idea what it will look like in 10, 20, 30 years.
Ick!
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Julie
September 18th, 2008 at 1:31 pm
One of my professors once called tatoos “the price of age.” I think he meant that with each generation there is some trend that some follow or adopt that becomes a “what was I thinking?” Some people look at pictures of leisure suits (baby blue polyester, white bucks, etc) and think “oh geez…” A tatoo and piercings are more permanent, obviously. I think for him, the price of age would have been to do some serious drugs. I don’t know if he did or not, but I’m sure he has his stories. Just like tats and piercings will have many stories for my generation.
Noelle
September 20th, 2008 at 2:33 pm
HA and John just paid for me to get my arm sleeved. (Just down to my elbow is all I am doing) I think I’ll take my chances with it
I’ve actually noticed on the right person with the right tattoo(s) it looks great even after many years.